Honoring Life, Embracing Hope in Christ
Funerals
At St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, we are here to walk with you in your time of loss, offering comfort, support, and the promise of Christ’s eternal hope. Planning a funeral Mass is an opportunity to celebrate the life of your loved one, honor their faith, and pray for their soul. Let us assist you in creating a meaningful and prayerful farewell that reflects the love and mercy of God.
How to Begin
Has your loved one passed, or would you like to pre-plan a liturgy?
If a loved one has passed, a visit to the funeral home is the first step, then we invite you and your family to church to meet with our staff to plan the liturgy.
By pre-planning your liturgy, your family will have fewer decisions to make during the very difficult and emotional days immediately following your death.
Contact Jeanette Croatt She can help plan your funeral liturgy.
For registered parishioners, there is no charge for a Mass of Christian Burial or prayer service when a funeral home is assisting the family.
Recent Funerals
Music
Click on each selection below for song samples on YouTube.
During your meeting at SEAS, our staff will help you fit your song choices in the appropriate place in the Funeral Mass. Other songs not listed may be appropriate and acceptable. Please bring those ideas to the meeting. Click on highlighted songs below to hear samples on YouTube.
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All Creatures of Our God and King #611
Alleluia! Sing to Jesus #949
Amazing Grace #645
Be Not Afraid #683
City of God #766
Come, O Long-Expected Jesus #403 (Advent)
Crown Him With Many Crowns #574
Eye Has Not Seen #728
Faith of Our Fathers #677
For All the Saints #884
Hail Mary: Gentle Woman #889
Here I Am, Lord #777
Holy God, We Praise Thy Name #615
Hosea #484
How Great Thou Art #578
I Have Loved You #588
I Know That My Redeemer Lives #527
Jesus Christ is Risen Today #540 (Easter)
Joyful, Joyful, We Adore You #614
Lord of All Hopefulness #663
Lord Who Throughout These Forty Days #479 (Lent) -
Make Me a Channel of Your Peace #828
Mine Eyes Have Seen the Glory #985
Morning Has Broken #855
Now Thank We All Our God #636
O God, Our Help in Ages Past #688
O Breathe on Me, O Breath of God #902
On Eagle's Wings #691
Shall We Gather at the River #873
Sing With All the Saints in Glory #539
Soon and Very Soon #865
The King of Love My Shepherd Is #712
The King Shall Come When Morning Dawns #414 (Advent)
The Servant Song #751
The Strife is Over #525
We Are Many Parts #834
We Walk By Faith #680
We Shall Rise Again #871
What Wondrous Love is This #642 (Lent)
Ye Watchers and Ye Holy Ones #882
You Are Near #695
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Behold the Lamb #939
Draw Near #935
Eat This Bread #941
I Am the Bread of Life #945
I Received the Living God #916
In the Breaking of the Bread #918
One Bread, One Body #932
Take and Eat #950
Taste and See #930
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Readings
In every celebration for the dead, the Church attaches great importance to the reading of the word of God. The readings teach remembrance of the dead, convey the hope of being gathered together again in God's kingdom, and encourage the witness of Christian life.
You will choose four readings for the Funeral Mass, but you only need to find readers for three (you may choose one person for all three.) The presider will read the Gospel. Find the selections below.
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1 Chronicles 29: 11-13
You, Lord, are greatness and might, majesty, victory, and splendor. For all in heaven and on earth is yours; yours, Lord, is kingship; you are exalted as head over all. Riches and glory are from you, and you have dominion over all. In your hand are power and might; it is yours to give greatness and strength to all. Therefore, our God, we give you thanks and we praise the majesty of your name.
Wisdom 3:1-6, 9
The souls of the just are in the hand of God, and no torment shall touch them. They seemed, in the view of the foolish, to be dead; and their passing away was thought an affliction and their going forth from us, utter destruction. But they are in peace. For if before men, indeed, they be punished, yet is their hope full of immortality; Chastised a little, they shall be greatly blessed, because God tried them and found them worthy of himself. As gold in the furnace, he proved them, and as sacrificial offerings he took them to himself. Those who trust in him shall understand truth, and the faithful shall abide with him in love: Because grace and mercy are with his holy ones, and his care is with the elect.
Sirach 6:14-17
A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure. A faithful friend is beyond price, no sum can balance his worth. A faithful friend is a life-saving remedy, such as he who fears God finds. For he who fears God behaves accordingly, and his friend will be like himself.
Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8, 11
There is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens. A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to uproot the plant. A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to tear down, and a time to build. A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance. A time to scatter stones, and a time to gather them; a time to embrace, and a time to be far from embraces. A time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away. A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to be silent, and a time to speak. A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. He has made everything appropriate to its time, and has put the timeless into their hearts, without men's ever discovering, from beginning to end, the work which God has done.
Isaiah 25:6a, 7-9
On this mountain the Lord of hosts will provide for all peoples. On this mountain God will destroy the veil that veils all peoples. The web that is woven over all nations; he will destroy death forever. The Lord God will wipe away the tears from all faces; The reproach of his people he will remove from the whole earth; for the Lord has spoken. On that day it will be said: "Behold our God, to whom we looked to save us! This is the Lord for whom we looked; let us rejoice and be glad that he has saved us!"
Isaiah 12:2-5
God indeed is my salvation; I am confident and unafraid. For the Lord is my strength and my might, and he has been my salvation. With joy you will draw water from the fountains of salvation, and you will say on that day: give thanks to the Lord, acclaim his name; Among the nations make known his deeds, proclaim how exalted is his name. Sing praise to the Lord for he has done glorious things; let this be known throughout all the earth.
Lamentations 3:22-25
The Lord’s acts of mercy are not exhausted, his compassion is not spent. They are renewed each morning—great is your faithfulness! The Lord is my portion, I tell myself, therefore I will hope in him. The Lord is good to those who trust in him, to the one that seeks him. -
Romans 6:3-4, 8-9
Are you unaware that we who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were indeed buried with him through baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might live in newness of life. If, then, we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with him. We know that Christ, raised from the dead, dies no more; death no longer has power over him.
Romans 8:31b-35,37-39
If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but handed him over for us all, how will he not also give us everything else along with him? Who will bring a charge against God's chosen ones? It is God who acquits us. Who will condemn? It is Christ Jesus who died, rather, was raised, who also is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us. What will separate us from the love of Christ? Will anguish, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or the sword? No, in all these things we conquer overwhelmingly through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
We do not want you to be unaware, brothers and sisters, about those who have fallen asleep, so that you may not grieve like the rest, who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose, so too will God, through Jesus, bring with him those who have fallen asleep. Indeed, we tell you this, on the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will surely not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself, with a word of command, with the voice of an archangel and with the trumpet of God, will come down from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. Thus we shall always be with the Lord. Therefore, console one another with these words.
2 Corinthians 5:1, 6-10
We know that if our earthly dwelling, a tent, should be destroyed, we have a building from God, a dwelling not made with hands, eternal in heaven. So we are always courageous, although we know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yet we are courageous, and we would rather leave the body and go home to the Lord. Therefore, we aspire to please him, whether we are at home or away. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive recompense, according to what he did in the body, whether good or evil.
2 Timothy 2: 8-13
Beloved: Remember Jesus Christ, raised from the dead, a descendant of David: such is my Gospel, for which I am suffering, even to the point of chains, like a criminal. But the word of God is not chained. Therefore, I bear with everything for the sake of those who are chosen, so that they too may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, together with eternal glory. This saying is trustworthy: If we have died with him we shall also live with him; if we persevere we shall also reign with him. But if we deny him he will deny us. If we are unfaithful he remains faithful, for he cannot deny himself.
1 John 3:1-2
See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. Yet so we are. The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Beloved, we are God's children now; what we shall be has not yet been revealed. We do know that when it is revealed we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.
Revelation 21:1-5
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former heaven and the former earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. I also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, God’s dwelling is with the human race. He will dwell with them and they will be his people and God himself will always be with them [as their God]. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain, [for] the old order has passed away.” the one who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” -
Matthew 5:1-12a
When he saw the crowds, Jesus went up the mountain, and after he had sat down, his disciples came to him. He began to teach them, saying: "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the land. Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied. Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you and utter every kind of evil against you falsely because of me. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward will be great in heaven."
Matthew 11:25-30
On one occasion Jesus spoke thus: "I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike. Yes, Father, such has been your gracious will. All things have been handed over to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son wishes to reveal him. "Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for your selves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light."
John 6:37-40
“Everything that the Father gives me will come to me, and I will not reject anyone who comes to me, because I came down from heaven not to do my own will but the will of the one who sent me. And this is the will of the one who sent me, that I should not lose anything of what he gave me, but that I should raise it on the last day. For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may have eternal life, and I shall raise him on the last day.”
John 6:51-58
Jesus said to the crowd: “I am the living bread that came down from heaven; whoever eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world.” The Jews quarreled among themselves, saying, "How can this man give us his flesh to eat?" Jesus said to them, "Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day. For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in him. Just as the living Father sent me and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me will have life because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died, whoever eats this bread will live forever."
John 14:1-6
Jesus said to his disciples: “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me. In my Father's house there are many dwelling places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be. Where I am going you know the way.” Thomas said to him, “Master, we do not know where you are going; how can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” -
Version 1
For _____________ who received the light of Christ in baptism, may God lead him/her safely home to heaven.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For all of us gathered here today, may our faith sustain us and may the hope of resurrection be strong in us.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For greater trust in our God who loves us unconditionally and gives us all that we need.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For the family and friends of ________________, give them comfort and peace and heal their pain.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For all those members of our families who have gone before us in death and await the kingdom, create for them an everlasting home with your Son Jesus Christ.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.Version 2
For ________________, may God be merciful and give him/her eternal life.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For all the family and friends of _________________, may they be comforted in their grief.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For all those who suffer in our world, may God grant them comfort and peace.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For all of us gathered here today, may we all share in the heavenly banquet of the Lord.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.
For all those who have died in the faith of Christ, may God grant them peace.
We pray to the Lord.
R. Lord, hear our prayer.